Today I'll tell you a story about how I got my ex back.
When my ex girlfriend left me seven years ago, I felt desperate and powerless. The anxiety was tearing me apart. I tried to focus on my own life, but, as you may know, the pain after a breakup does not really go away, even after a long time. You may think you're okay, but then you see a picture of your ex, her new instagram post, and you're depressed again. The pain is not only psychological. It's physical.
You're vulenurable and you are afraid that if you do nothing, she will find another man and you will lose her forever. You think that you have to do something right now to get her back. Now - or never. But, back in the days, there were no real ways to get her back. Psychologists could help you cope and forget. Or suggest to use methods that do not really work - like pretending to improving yourself in desperate attemtpts to seduce her again.
But I didn't want to cope. I wanted to understand and change things.
I wanted to get her back. And to never let her leave me again.
Yes, I was a bit arrogant, I'll be honest with you. But this arrogance helped me find the answers to the most important questions:
- How the attraction works?
- How you can increase the level of attraction?
- Which events and actions in daily life destroy the attraction?
Do you remember the time you were together and everything seemed to be perfect?
I always wanted to understand the reasons how this happines may turn into rubble in the matter of weeks or even days. When yesterday she tells you 'I love you' and today she is gone...with her new colleague she told you about a few weeks ago.
If you ask your couple about the reasons she left you, usually you will hear something like:
- You've changed. You're not the man I used to know
- You're spending too much time with your friends
- You work too much
- You should've worked harder
- Why can't you be more caring/smart/strong/(any property).
- You should've let me visit clubs with my girls
The last one is my favourite..
In reality, all of these reasons are just excuses. The most important factor of the breakup is the absense of attraction.
When a woman leaves her partner, in 95% of the cases she doesn't feel anything towards him except pity, annoyance and, sometimes, even disgust. And the key to restoring the relationship lies in the magic of attraction. True attraction is not about fancy clothes, posture, even body figure or money. It's all about the balance. The power balance.
EFFECTIVE COUNTERMEASURE TO BREAKUP
After two years of research, I managed to get my ex back. Yes, she came back to me two years after the breakup. There's no time limit. Then, I started practising, helping my friends first, and then, helping their friends. At last, I reached the stage where I could help hundreds people all over the world.
Of course, you won't have to wait that long. For most of my clients, when we take action quickly, the average duration is 2 to 4 months.
Unfortunately, my schedule for personal consultations is very tough. Not everyone manages to get their spot. Currently, I am training several students so
we'll be able to help more people personally.
But, as a quick countermeasure to the epidemy of breakups and divorces, I've created an accessible consultantion recording which includes the most important information that I've been giving to my clients for the past 5 years based on the most complex breakup and divorce cases.
I put all my heart into it and I am sure that it will help you to restore you and your relationship.